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My Tips for Talking to Your Doctor about SexWhat are my top three tips for talking to your doctor about sex? Watch and learn! ... more |
Is it sex?How do you define sex? I’ve written about this topic before, and I acknowledge that my definition has been very heteronormative. I’m a straight female who... more |
A letter to my studentsDear Sexuality and Social Media Students: Thank you for submitting your Sexual Genograms. After reading your papers, I became reflective on my development and sexuality from... more |
Safety First Giveaway with Lucky BlokeSex is exciting. Walking into a store, and purchasing condoms, not so much. And, running out of condoms isn’t just awkward - it can have some very... more |
Ask (the Lelo) SiriWhen I saw, “Ask Siri About Sex,” on my Twitter stream, I initially thought it was a typographical error. I was bothered that Suri was... more |
Orgasm HelpNothing says, “Happy Holidays!” like answering a reader’s question from Formspring. Question: I’ve never orgasmed, and I feel like every partner I’ve had takes personal offense... more |
Faking itLast week, I received three questions on Formspring related to having an orgasm. (Is there something in the air?) I’ll answer those questions in the... more |
Playing dirtyI’m rarely one for clean breaks with a guy. Instead, our relationship turns into a game of Frogger. We move closer to each other, then... more |
Saying whenThe end of November always proved to be an eventful time for her on the dating front. Major relationships had started and ended all around... more |
Seven months later -- Part IIShe couldn’t look at the calendar and pick a date when their relationship changed. She only knew that it had changed. He was still there... more |
Seven months laterHe was there for her during both surgeries and six rounds of chemotherapy. No matter what she asked of him, he was there. When she... more |
Losing it!Okay, so I’m a virgin. I want to wait until I’m married to have sex. When I do it for the first time, will it... more |
The Rules of Juggling“Do you tell all the guys you see that you're dating around, or is it just assumed that everyone does it? If someone is seeing... more |
The Anal-Loving JonesesYou don’t do anal sex?!? All the girls do it now. -- Statement made to a recently divorced woman from a guy she had started dating When... more |
Giveaway: Does He Cheat?I'm not one who spends time pontificating over whether or not a guy is a cheater. I try to believe the best in people --... more |
Fun Factory CallaAre you in the market for a sex toy that's: 1. Ergonomically-friendly (protect your hand and wrist as you please your...); 2. Sex positive (doesn't contain any... more |
Surviving to thrivingOne year ago last week, I got back together with Best Boy. In a post about that decision, I wrote: In the midst of treatment, all... more |
Fun Factory Smart BallsNothing says TGIF like my first sex toy video review! (And, no, I'm not actually using the toy on the video.) Fun Factory Smart Balls get... more |
City Girl 2.0I've been thinking of ways to take this blog in a new direction. What's next for me? Let's go to the videotape! Video Introduction: Capital Breast Care Center... more |
A YOOO for you!A Sex Toy Haiku: Three balls. Two motors. Magic. In this Fun Factory toy The YOOO. Nirvana? I’ve written about my love of Fun Factory before. The company is... more |
Fun (Factory) For AllFOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE Contact: Emilie Rosanvallon Communications Manager Funfactory USA, Inc. FUN FACTORY and CITY GIRL Collaborate for Breast Cancer Awareness (Los Angeles, CA) -- Funfactory USA and CITYGIRLBLOGS.com... more |
What's my number?At brunch yesterday, a friend relayed the following story to me: So, Joe [a mutual friend] and I were having dinner in Rockville, and the table... more |
In the DenQuestion: What do you get when you mix one sex doctor and one sex blogger? Answer: A really great time! I met Dr. Jennifer Gunsaullus (otherwise known... more |
A bad first timeIt’s Hump Day so let’s tackle a sex question from a reader: My boyfriend thinks since the first time we had sex was awkward, it means... more |
Readers' Choice #2As I visualize my dating life after treatment, I’m in a much different place than I was a year ago. Thankfully. I’m not averse to... more |
Waving my magic body wandI was excited when Fascinations at Fun Love asked me to test the XGEN Body Wand. “How does product testing differ from sex toy reviewing?” you... more |
"O" faceLet’s start the week off with a question from Formspring! Question: My wife does not have an orgasm when I go down on her. She’s told... more |
Shaking things upA year ago this week, I met Mr. Agency. A few days later, we grabbed drinks together. A year ago this week, Best Boy spent... more |
Bang and rollAt some points during my six weeks of radiation treatments, I wasn’t in a lot of pain and actually enjoyed being at the Cancer Center... more |
Feeling betterI typically wake up several times in the middle of the night. Each time I did so on the morning in March after Best Boy... more |
The breaking point?As my radiation treatments came to a close in March, I felt quite unsettled about my relationship with Best Boy. What were we? Had sex... more |
Radiation boobsRadiation therapy may be used during cancer treatment to shrink the tumor and kill the bad cells. In some cases (like mine), radiation has been... more |
Lucky giveaway!Are you in a relationship? If so, comment about why you’re lucky in love and you could have a chance to win the Lucky Lovers DVD... more |
Why won't a guy do THAT?Formspring, I haven’t forsaken you! Question: My guy doesn’t go down. He did once for a very brief time, and I’m afraid that he doesn’t like... more |
Perfect position indeed!Looking to spice up your relationship? Still in search of that seemingly elusive G-Spot*? Tired of using your pillows for more than just sleep? Finding yourself sore (and... more |
I smell sex and...cancer?Every 30 seconds, someone in the United States is diagnosed with cancer. Last year, at age 37, I was one of those people. I needed a lumpectomy... more |
My go-to guyIn 2011, Best Boy and I went from seeing each other twice a week to once a week. (I wasn't exactly sure why that was,... more |
The end. For real.On President's Day Weekend, I went to the beach...and I lost one of my best friends. I'm not publishing the story of what happened to my... more |
Stick a fork in me. I'm done.Over the course of seven months, my relationship with Mr. Agency had taken several twists and turns. We met and quickly became snuggling buddies. A... more |
Out of the blueAs I walked home from my date with Hampton Man, I texted a girlfriend who frequented some of the same bars and lounges as he... more |
An odd first date - Part IIAs my odd first date with Hampton Man continued, I felt like I was watching a fender bender. It wasn't the worst first date that... more |
How to talk to your partner about health issuesTalking about dinner, work, children, money and household responsibilities with a partner is commonplace. But, for many couples, it’s not as easy to discuss personal... more |
A busy little beaverThe week after Mr. Agency and I slept together again was a busy one for me. In the midst of five radiation treatments, I also... more |
SlippingOur texts went from sporadic to frequent. As we wrote each other more and more, the topics went from light and innocuous to sexually charged.... more |
How to master the art of dirty talkHow can you master the art of dirty talk to enhance your sex life? Read on for my tips: 1. Status check. There are people who never... more |
RoutineTwo girlfriends were in DC for a conference in early February, and we gathered at Proof to eat, drink and talk about work and boys.... more |
Sex toys for first timersShopping for your first sex toy can be a bit overwhelming. There are so many options that it’s tough to know where to start. Here... more |
Open to interpretation - Part 2Best Boy had just told me that he loved me. Did the fact that he said it for the first time ever while we were... more |
Open to interpretationI had hoped to go out again with Stanford Man after our inspiring and enjoyable brunch, but much to my dismay, he needed to go... more |
The Duck & The Swan -- Part 2Single Mom in the City's conversation with Mr. Exotic about being a duck or a swan in the dating pond continues: Mr. Exotic: Papi [the guy... more |
The Duck & The Swan -- Part 1Dear Readers – Before I get into my next Single Mom in the City Chronicles post, I wanted to let you know about an event this... more |
The five heard 'round the worldHope you all enjoy this entertaining guest post from Rocker Girl! xoxo I think every woman out there has that one man they dated that they... more |
ProcessingBest Boy reached out to me on the last night of my last round of chemotherapy. My emotions were all over the place, but I... more |
Talking it outAs I had predicted, Mr. Agency called me three days after our text conversation. In those 72 hours, I didn't shed a tear over him... more |
The Icicles Cometh!Enjoy it heated. Admire the beautiful presentation. Try it chilled. Think of how long it took someone to make it. Smile, knowing that you’re putting only healthy ingredients in... more |
True LoveSingle Mom in the City Chronicles: Have you felt true love? Do you know what it feels like? I do. I was married for six years.... more |
A long DecemberAfter Mr. Agency and I discussed what worked for both of us, I had thought that we had agreed to spend one night a week... more |
NegotiationsI found it endearing when Mr. Agency showed how concerned he was about me and my dog’s safety after Flake had gotten loose on a... more |
How do you relay information on social networks?On April 3, 2011, I spoke on a panel at the American University Social Learning Summit. The title of the panel was: Where Do You Draw... more |
Run like the wind!I was beginning to think that I might want to finally pursue a relationship with Best Boy, but I feared that he no longer felt... more |
Getting itMy energy and strength finally started coming back toward the end of the third round of chemotherapy. My iron counts were up after five transfusions,... more |
The Single Mom in the City ChroniclesI’m proud to introduce the second featured writer for City Girl Blogs. Please give a warm welcome and lots of supportive comments to Single Mom... more |
Baffling yet againI saw Mr. Agency a fair amount during November and early December. By that point, I had managed expectations about our relationship. I saw him... more |
Rosetta Stone - Part IOver the coming months, I’ll be featuring several guest posts from fellow bloggers. To kick off the series, I’m pleased to introduce you all to...[insert... more |
What do you need, honey?Let’s tackle a reader’s question from Formspring: So, my partner says she does find me “attractive,” but doesn’t ever really get into the mood. I’m not... more |
In the leadI started to evaluate my dating adventures with Mr. Agency and Best Boy by who was in the lead. When Best Boy came back on the... more |
All was calmMy red blood and iron counts were low, and I needed iron transfusions for five out of nine days in November. The nurses advised me... more |
Doctor, Doctor, give me the news!A family friend recently had knee surgery. The procedure went well, and prior to leaving the hospital, the nurse gave him discharge instructions. He can... more |
Bed restI had just started to feel better from the second round of chemotherapy when I needed to return to the doctor's office for my third... more |
Shaking my headMy third round of chemotherapy was looming so I made the same request to both Best Boy and Mr. Agency: Let’s get together before my next... more |
Ask and ye shall receiveAfter I had dried the first of many tears over Rod’s passing, I picked up the telephone to call Mr. Agency. It went to voicemail,... more |
Exit OnlyTime to tackle a reader’s question from Formspring: Question: My boyfriend is into anal, but it is not my preference due to some medical issues I... more |
Spirit FingersIf I look a bit bleary-eyed today, it’s because I spent much of last night watching porn from Fascinations at Fun Love. After three hours... more |
A content morningWhen Mr. Agency and I woke, there was one thing on my mind. Correction. There were two things on my mind, but I knew that... more |
A night of many emotions (Part II)I tried to contain my shock, as Mr. Agency walked toward me and gave me a kiss on the cheek. (For all intents and purposes,... more |
What a girl wantsI accepted the fact that Mr. Agency wasn't interested in being in a committed relationship with me and focused on what would make me happy. ... more |
Proceeding With CautionI wasn’t sure if Mr. Agency would be in a position to be there for me during my next round of treatment, but I was... more |
NeedsI had expected that Mr. Agency was coming over to my place in the middle of the day to end our relationship. He had gone... more |
What's Going On?Mr. Agency and I were both out of town in early October. I had planned to return from Manhattan on Thursday, but Mr. Agency wasn’t... more |
From FWBs to Roomies?Time to tackle a reader's question from Formspring: Question: Can living with a "friend with benefits" work? Relationship is pre-existing, but the possibility of being roomies... more |
A Giveaway & a SurveyNothing says Valentine’s Day is on the horizon like a Blogger Giveaway and Survey! (Insert applause here.) I recently was contacted by a representative from Knock... more |
Back In The SaddleI felt so sick after my first round of chemotherapy that I didn’t have sex for almost a week. When I finally did have sex,... more |
A Picture's Worth A Thousand WordsThe morning of the Charity Gala on the Hill found me still recouping from my first round of chemotherapy. I had planned to attend the... more |
Too Much InformationMr. Agency stepped up and stood by me as I was recouping from having my medical port installed. The night before my first chemotherapy treatment,... more |
Feeling LuckyI had let Best Boy know that we needed to take the “benefits” out of our “friends with benefits” arrangement. It surprised me that he... more |
Art ClassWhen I think of body painting, I immediately think of the Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Edition. I always find the pages that feature the models with... more |
More Than Friends With BenefitsAfter my recent conversation with Mr. Agency, I had some concerns. Would his lack of work/life balance be problematic for us in the long run? ... more |
Communication Is KeyMr. Agency had indicated that he would come over to my place after his events. So, when I received a text at 2am in which... more |
From Smiles To...The week after Labor Day, Mr. Agency and I continued to spend a lot of time together in bed. Mr. Agency: I don’t understand those couples... more |
Perma GrinShortly after Best Boy left my place, the phone rang. It was Mr. Agency, letting me know that he was back in DC after his... more |
Quite The Teddy BearMy friendship with benefits arrangement with Best Boy thankfully didn’t bar me from pursuing a relationship with Mr. Agency. I use the term, “relationship,” loosely,... more |
A Good FriendshipBest Boy and I continued to spend more time together, and I appreciated the fact that he put the “friend” in “friend with benefits.” He... more |
The Rabbit HabitWhen the owners of Lotus Blooms handed me my next toy to review, I smiled like a kid in a candy store and exclaimed: A phthalate-free... more |
Spooning With Best BoyFor one week in mid-August, my place became a revolving door of men. Best Boy, Boston Christian and Mr. Agency had all spent nights at... more |
Year In Review Haiku“Buckeyes” Boy reached out That leopard can’t change his spots Once a con artist… He gave me blog gold Who breaks up via Twitter? Milked every last post Saw him in... more |
Three's A Crowd!Best Boy arrived at my place, and I gave him a quick kiss – sans open mouth and tongue – at the door before introducing... more |
Knock KnockBoston Christian called me on Tuesday morning to thank me again for taking him out to dinner for his birthday. He also let me know... more |
The Spy Who Wanted To Love Me -- Part 2Meeting Jim -- Part Two By Sherry When I got home from the bridal shower, there was an email from Jim waiting for me: Oh, Sherry, our love... more |
The Spy Who Wanted To Love MeMeeting Jim By Sherry It started at an Indian summer Sunday afternoon BBQ. I’d said hello to the hosts and was going to the cooler to get... more |
Peace And A PieceA Guest Post by the Chief I had met the Canadian at a Crossfit Class in Kandahar, Afghanistan. There is one thing you should know about... more |
Friends With BenefitsWhen Boston Christian and I woke up, we had very different takes regarding the prior evening's events. Christian couldn’t stop smiling and talking about how... more |
UTIs and You (or Your Partner)Nothing says Hump Day like answering a Formspring question about UTIs (urinary tract infections)! Now, before my male readers close this window, if you date... more |
How Is Chemo Like Sex?I find myself being able to see the light at the end of the tunnel. I’m halfway through chemotherapy. Halfway. Three down and three to... more |
Blow FunA reader recently asked me for advice about giving a blow job. The owners of Lotus Blooms have also fielded similar questions so it made... more |
A Model Boy?When Model Boy and I arrived in front of my building, he stopped the car and turned to kiss me. The kiss was gentle and... more |
Benefits Without Friendship?After my biopsy in early July, my friend, AP, called to check on me. I updated her on the day’s events, including the horrible night... more |
The Nail in the CoffinIn early July, I had a breast MRI that revealed three areas of concern that hadn’t shown up on my mammogram. Mr. Exec and I... more |
Dutch Boy Is BackEarly July found me at an impasse with Mr. Exec. A large part of me felt as though I needed to cease all communication with... more |
Quick, Quick, Slow 2.0Yesterday, I tackled two Formspring questions from a guy who fears that he orgasms too quickly. But, what if the guy takes too long? Question 1:... more |
Quick, Quick, SlowI receive quite a few sex and relationship questions via Formspring, but it’s been a while since I’ve posted my answers to them. (Damn chemo!) ... more |
A Calmer RideThe morning after I learned I had breast cancer, I awoke and called my breast surgeon to figure out what the next steps were. Unfortunately,... more |
Diagnosis Night -- Part 4I was on board the Mr. Exec Roller Coaster and was surprised at how many unexpected twists and turns the ride took on the night... more |
Quite A DayAfter my breast biopsies, I returned home to rest. Mr. Exec called me when he was out of his meetings to check on me. Mr. Exec:... more |
Selectively OpenFor the past month, I felt as though I had been on the Mr. Exec Roller Coaster. We were a couple. We weren’t a couple. ... more |
Cleaning -- It's A Must!I’ve written a lot about sex toys, but I haven’t written much about caring for your sex toys. (And, by “caring,” I’m referring to cleaning.)... more |
Intimate TermsI exhaled deeply before picking up the phone to answer Mr. Exec’s call. Me: Hey. [Pause.] What's up? Mr. Exec: Hello. How are you? Me: Good. We continued to... more |
Just BenefitsI left for the American Association of Sex Counselors, Educators and Therapists Conference in early June. I figured that Mr. Exec and I would engage... more |
Playing With MatchesMr. Exec was in town the weekend after our recent booty call. He didn’t have much on his work agenda so I found it rather... more |
Go Daddy!Memorial Day Weekend found me in an odd place with both Mr. Exec and Philly Matt. Philly Matt was off to spend the holiday in New... more |
Keepin' It WrappedIn an earlier post, I wrote about how to broach condom use without ruining the mood. Now, let’s get to the nuts and bolts (pun... more |
Leggo My Tenga Egg-oI asked Arlington Boy if he would be willing to write a review of the Tenga Egg, a male sex toy. Lucky for me, my... more |
Aah - InnervibeHave you wanted to buy your first sex toy for couple's use, but didn't know where to start?Do the higher prices of body-friendly adult products... more |
Big DaddyMr. Exec had been in my bed several times before, but tonight was different. Without talking about it, I knew that we were going... more |
Even more to the storyMr. Exec and I had dated for a month. And then, we stopped talking to each other for a month. Now, Mr. Exec... more |
More to the storyI headed upstairs after my fun date with Best Boy AND Mr. Exec, his best friend and the guy that I had dated for a... more |
Cancer QueriesAs Summer 2010 draws to a close, I find myself thinking about what an eventful summer it has been. It was the perfect blend of: 1.... more |
The LayaSpotLotus Blooms' customers request that the boutique carry Fun Factory's LAYAspot more than any other massage toy! The toy was also featured on Oprah... more |
Dolce Mia!When it comes to sex toys, products by Lelo do not disappoint! I've written about the virtues of the Lelo Elise before, and now,... more |
Naughty and niceAfter my dinner in Georgetown with Improv Boy, I invited him upstairs for a drink. We talked about our plans for the following day.... more |
Not your Grandpa's flashlight!A couple was expecting twins. The husband wanted sex, but the wife felt too uncomfortable for any bedroom activities. Frustrated, the husband went... more |
The Elite EliseWhen it comes to sex toys, Lelo products are the creme de la creme! The Swedish company was established in 2003 with one key objective:... more |
Stage 1. Not so fun.I've been thinking a lot about the different hats that I wear. I'm a relationship and sex blogger. I'm the in-house product reviewer... more |
Kinda cute.I was excited to learn that Lotus Blooms carries Bswish sex toys. Bswish boasts products that are chic, functional and attractive. Think pretty... more |
Just Do ItA thank you doesn't seem sufficient for all the support you all have shown me! Your comments brought tears to my eyes and reminded... more |
No Pity Parties. Only Titty Parties.I've blogged a lot about my tits. I've told you all about bite marks on them, sending guys photos of them, and sexcapades with them. I... more |
Something to talk aboutIt was another cold and rainy day in DC in late March. The weather was perfect for relaxing at home so I curled up... more |
Anal QueriesNothing says, "It's Monday!" to me like tackling some anal queries from Formspring. Question #1: How does it feel to have a penis in... more |
Very Smart BallsWhile I was at the AASECT conference last weekend, I was thrilled to see that Fun Factory had a representative in the exhibition hall. "What's Fun... more |
The G-spotFor many women, the G-spot or ability to achieve a vaginal orgasm is elusive. How elusive? Well, it's estimated that 75% of women cannot orgasm... more |
Trusting your partnerI had planned to continue writing about my day of playing hooky with Mr. Exec, but Mr. Exec has asked me not to blog about... more |
Top 10 Posts 2.0When I started this blog 17 months ago, I never imagined that it would lead me here -- to Pittsburgh to attend the American Association... more |
Wrapping it upI recently received the following question on Formspring:I have had unprotected sex a couple of times, and I know it's a bad idea for the... more |
Passing the testIn the first month of my relationship with "Buckeyes" Boy, I trusted him implicitly. I opened up my heart and my home to him... more |
This, that & losing itQuestion: Can I write a blog post in less than 500 words?Answer: Yes...when asked to do so in a guest post for a friend's blog.Last... more |
The Triple Flex is a winner!I'm still incensed about the use of toxic chemicals in sex toys. I've spoken with several friends over the past few days about the lack... more |
How soon is too soon to have sex with a new guy?When I was in NYC recently, I had lunch with an old friend. In less than a month, her long-term boyfriend had broken up... more |
Bad rabbitQuestion: What is the most popular sex toy for women?Answer: [So...did you venture a guess yet?]My answer would be: The Rabbit. It's low on price... more |
Dirty Talk - Pet PeevesI was planning on continuing with tales of The Baron, but since today is LiLu's last TMI Thursday, I had to switch gears.Last week, I... more |
Talk Dirty To MeA few months ago, a friend asked me for advice about talking dirty to her boyfriend. More recently, two other friends added to that... more |
Rimming itNothing says it's TMI Thursday like a post about giving my first rim job. Yeah, I went there so of course, I'm blogging about... more |
How do you define sex?What constitutes "sex" to you? Jean from Girly Adventure posed that question to me in a comment to my last post about Philly Matt. She... more |
Friends. And more.Philly Matt drove us back to my hotel on January 2, 2010. We had one thing and one thing only on our minds...dessert. ... more |
Around the rimA reader sent me an email on Twitter last month, asking me about rimming. (For those of you who don't know what rimming is, it involves... more |
One orgasm at a timeEarlier this month, I received this question from one of my favorite virtual friends:How do I stop myself from essentially being "done" after one clitoral... more |
Coke in my hoo-haAs 2009 drew to a close, I was thankful to have "Buckeyes" Boy out of my life, but I wasn't about to jump into... more |
PrioritizingThe patterns of late in my relationship with Buckeyes Boy were unhealthy. Somehow we went from dominant and submissive in the bedroom to dominant... more |
Green + Red = YellowMy recent posts about my relationship with Buckeyes Boy have generated a lot of comments, and I really appreciate hearing everyone's thoughts! The bulk... more |
Two monthiversaryFor our two-month anniversary on November 10, 2009, Buckeyes Boy and I went to Farmers and Fishers in Georgetown. (I realize that's not a... more |
Oh crap!It's TMI Thursday so time to talk about anal!Sex is my favorite thing to do. Simply put, sex is my favorite:1. Hobby;2. Stress reliever;3. Exercise; and4. Way to... more |
A corset for one just ain't fun!The blissful honeymoon stage of our relationship was over. Buckeyes Boy had started his job at the Convention Center and was overwhelmed and exhausted... more |
Unsatisfied = unhappyWith Buckeyes Boy working long days and nights at the Convention Center, I did my best to take care of him and make his life... more |
How to (maybe) orgasm during sexA female friend recently sent me an email, asking for my recommendations for the best sexual position to achieve an orgasm. That baffled me... more |
I get it! Kind of.I woke up on October 14, 2009, thinking about my fight with Buckeyes Boy the night before. Buckeyes Boy kissed me and went off... more |
Coffee...talkIt was Sunday, October 11th, 2009, and Buckeyes Boy was starting his job at the Convention Center in the morning. We spent the day... more |
The intimacy of analI have been frequenting L2 Lounge quite a bit recently. When people ask what I do (which is usually the first question that people... more |
Dishing on sex and Lush product reviewHave you wanted to see what I look like in real life and hear my voice? Well, now's your chance! I was thrilled... more |
Good news...and bad newsLet us return (after a much longer hiatus than anticipated) to the tale of City Girl and Buckeyes Boy. When last we left, it... more |
Sex during that time of the monthYes, folks, I'm going there. Once again, I'm blogging about sex...and dirty sex at that. I'm talking about sex during that time of... more |
Food for thoughtI still love you.And, I know that I have so much more to write about my relationship with Buckeyes Boy.But, I also need to finish... more |
When it's right, it's right!Buckeyes Boy and I awoke on September 24, 2009, and began to make out. It had been two weeks since we met, and we... more |
Sex in the shower - tips & Lush product reviewA comment from one of my favorite bloggers got me thinking about how I have sex in the shower...logistically. Yes, there are space constraints,... more |
Stop. Shower time.I mentioned in my review of Lush's You Wash My Back soap how I love to wash Buckeyes Boy from head to toe and everywhere... more |
How rough is too rough?September 2009Can 10 days change your life? Since meeting Buckeyes Boy at the DC Twestival, it sure felt that way. I put my... more |
It's Friday and I'm still in loveFriday, September 18, 2009Buckeyes Boy and I couldn't stop smiling and giggling as we got in my car to go to Safeway. I hoped... more |
This is real!September 2009I was falling in love with Buckeyes Boy. Me! And, it felt amazing!I awoke on Friday morning (eight days after we met... more |
WeekiversarySeptember 2009In the midst of my bliss with Buckeyes Boy, I heard from JAG Man...a few hours after I ran into him outside. He... more |
Sex can be a pickle (and Flying Fox review)September 2009I've written about my amazing emotional connection with Buckeyes Boy and how we bonded from our first date. And, I've blogged about our... more |
Third time's a charm!September 2009I had met Buckeyes Boy only three days ago at the Twestival, and yet, in that short time, all of my emotional walls had... more |
Sex toys with your partner...wanna play?I received the following e-mail from one of my favorite girls a few weeks ago:Professional advice – no, not legal! I've booked a romantic... more |
An anal query (and Honey Trap review)One of my favorite bloggers sent me a great question via comment in response to my Anal 3.0 post:I am a man and have no... more |
Anal 3.0: The Back StoryAfter writing my previous posts about anal sex, I've received several questions about the topic. Here are some of my thoughts to those questions,... more |
What goes up must come downJanuary-February 2006Philly Matt and I wanted to make our relationship work, and yet, our problems as a couple were mounting:1. The base at which he... more |
Two strikes and you're...?August 25, 2009On several occasions since I had met JAG Man, I had a feeling that he was on his way out of my life.... more |
Wanting moreAugust 2009JAG Man and I had a wonderful date at The W Hotel's bar and restaurant, but the elation turned to deflation when his little... more |
When sex hurtsTwo friends recently approached me with almost identical questions about what to do when sex is painful:I have endometriosis and having sex hurts. I... more |
Ho, Ho, Ho to Bah Humbug!December 2005All I wanted for Christmas was Philly Matt. Much like I did for Thanksgiving, I headed up to Philadelphia to spend the Christmas... more |
Feeling thankfulNovember 2005I wondered if I had found The One in Philly Matt. We saw each other one or two weekends a month, which allowed... more |
Life is good. I am bad (kind of).October-November 2005The leaves started changing colors, as fall arrived in Washington, DC. I was fully recouped from my surgery and completely head-over-heels in love... more |
Lube Job 2.0As we travel down the road toward Lubrication River yet again, let's talk about two more issues regarding personal lubricants.In Imerika's comment to my last... more |
Lube JobSo, I'm not a medical professional or a certified sex educator. But, I am a sex blogger who is comfortable talking to her friends... more |
A sexy and sappy weekendSeptember 2005Philly Matt and I were in love. Three weeks after my surgery, Matt came down to DC to spend the weekend with me.... more |
Anal 2.0Since I started blogging, my Anal 101 post has garnered the most hits. I've been thinking about what I could add to help straight... more |
Throwing out my old playbook2005I've always maintained that the bad in my life is balanced out with many wonderful blessings. In late May and early June, I was... more |
My second quasi-threesomeAnother bizarre, but not necessarily erotic, "threesome" story:November 1990It was my freshman year in college. I was sitting in my dorm room late at... more |
The calm before the stormJune-July 2005I was still on a high after my night in Philadelphia with Philly Matt. Even though I hadn't spent much time with him... more |
What's good for the goose...This afternoon, I posted the following Tweet: Thinking about double standards between men and women. Would I have to blog about relationships and sex anonymously... more |
My Top 10 PostsA huge shout-out to W*USA 9 reporter, Angie Goff, for her wonderful write-up about my blog! For those of you who are new to my blog,... more |
I'm a Sex BloggerLast night, I attended the DC Twestival. It was a gathering of the DC community on Twitter to benefit Miriam's Kitchen, an organization that... more |
Musings on multiples"If I had to choose between getting off once with a guy or being by myself and getting off as many times as I want,... more |
Can a threesome help you reconnect?In response to my posts on reconnecting with your partner, one of my friends suggested the option of "trying a threesome." I think a threesome... more |
A City Girl Challenge - Part 2Have you orgasmed today? Yes, YOU! If you have, give yourself a pat on the back from me. If you haven't, what are you waiting... more |
A City Girl Challenge: ready...set...cum!I get excited when I hear that my friends and readers have used my posts to help explore their sexuality. For some, it might be... more |
Reconnecting with your partnerTwo months ago, my friend and I were at Founding Farmers when she asked me for some sex advice. Her dilemma: I come home from a... more |
A looong month is over!In one month: I learned that Lawyer Boy and Darby had gotten engaged. After finding out that Lawyer Boy had (not surprisingly) lied to me again,... more |
My Sex SabbaticalTheir mouths open, as they try not to have their jaws drop right in front of me. I see their eyes getting wider. ... more |
Finger-licking good -- Part IIIThe vibrators are in the toy drawer. You know your woman can reach orgasm. You are looking to change up your normal routine. Tonight is... more |
Finger-licking good -- Part IIIn my last post, I talked about how vibrators can desensitize a woman's clitoral nerves, making it more difficult for her to orgasm without toys.... more |
Finger-licking goodA friend recently asked me to write a post about jilling or fingering a girl. That got me thinking about the last time that a... more |
A warm JanuaryJanuary 2005 Male Roll Call: Lawyer Boy? Check. Water Boy? Check. Basketball Boy? Check. Winters can be pretty cold in DC, but this one felt... more |
Bon(er) Appetit -- blow job musings 2.0My last post addressed the basics of giving a blow job. But, what do you do when your guy is ready to cum? After brunch at... more |
Bon(er) Appetit -- blow job musingsI'm planning a House "Warming" Party at my condo later this month. I put "Warming" in quotes for a reason. This party is Girls Only,... more |
Lawyer Boy on my mind in 5-7-5Haiku* Trying to forget Our affair. My memory Like an elephant Was doing so well Put away the Kleenex box With my old yearbooks 'Til I saw the pic Of Darby's pregnant belly Floodgates... more |
All the single (and proud of it) ladies...now put your hands up!When I meet someone for the first time, I'm often asked, "Are you single, City Girl?" "Yes." I gaze into the person's eyes and notice his or... more |
Detente with The Diminutive Russian continuesThe Diminutive Russian (aka one of my worst boyfriends ever) recently joined Facebook. If the past is any indication of the future, we will randomly... more |
"Mom, I think I have frostbite!"February 1994 After The Diminutive Russian and I split up, my heart was broken. I was 20 years old and had moved down to DC for... more |
The Art of Staying Down (aka my oral sex musings)A dear friend of mine recently hinted that I should hurry up and write my post about Oral Sex. Ask and ye shall receive...I'm... more |
Status Update -- Part IIAfter my Anal 101 post was featured on DC Blogs, I was asked to describe my blog in one sentence. I went with the following: "The... more |
Helping handsI remember when I was a teenager and I tried to give my first hand job. I was living overseas and went over Embassy Boy's... more |
Anal 101Over the years, quite a few friends have asked me about anal sex. What does it feel like? What are my tips for trying it... more |
The Diminutive Russian -- Part IIThe beautiful weather of the past few days has clearly reinvigorated DC and its residents. People are outside more with smiles as warm as the... more |
The Diminutive Russian -- another contender for Best Worst BoyfriendAnother contender for my Best Worst Boyfriend would be The Diminutive Russian. The year was 1993. I had recently arrived in DC for my college... more |
Mama Said Knock You Out2008 I was in NYC for ten days, and Lawyer Boy had a race in The Poconos. We were debating whether he should come see me... more |
The Beef -- a contender for the Best Worst BoyfriendI put a link to my blog on Facebook to increase traffic, and got an interesting comment from an ex-boyfriend, The Beef, about how he... more |
Yes, I broke my nose having sexGeorgetown Boy and I were an almost-lethal combination. He was destined to be a rebound guy from the start. I was still in love with... more |
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